Saturday, November 04, 2006

//Dil Se Desi// The Family That Eats Together Stays Together : Make Sure no one misses this article

The Family That Eats Together Stays Together
http://spicyflavours.proboards31.com/index.cgi?board=life&action=display&thread=1162712251
How far is this convincing????

Remember those days when dinner time meant conversations , cracking up over jokes , dishing out words of wisdom....

Today dad eat in his room while watching cricket
Mom eat while talking on cell , sis eat while listening the music on her ipod and remaining of us eat while chatting to our online friends on internet

While paying attention to individual intrests is fine , its also important to remember that sharing a meal is not just about eating , but also about strengthening family bonds and making pleasant memories . NO wonder One of the magzine reports that the more often families eat together , the less likely that kids are going to smoke , drink , do drugs or get depressed
http://spicyflavours.proboards31.com/index.cgi?board=life&action=display&thread=1162712251
Every one want to watch TV while eating , nobody want to eat at dining table .
Conversation with our family members is minimum , and even when does it take place , it is stressed .....

Does it really good signs??? Think of it frds !!!!!!

Sociolgists stress that the power of eating together is akind ov vaccine that protect kids .....

Benefits of Family Meals

There is much more to mealtime than just food.

Families usually save money
Children's school performance improves
Children develop a stronger sense of belonging
Children often have less behavioural problems
Family communication can improve
Mealtime encourages conversation and interaction around the dinner table, which improves a child's vocabulary and communication skills. This leads to better performance in school and fewer behavioural problems.
http://spicyflavours.proboards31.com/index.cgi?board=life&action=post&thread=1162712251&page=1
Mealtimes give parents a chance to lead by example and demonstrate healthy food choices.

Mealtime also helps to instill a sense of belonging in children, and provides a way to transmit family values and traditions.

As a result, children who eat with their family at least once a day are less likely to smoke, drink, use drugs, or attempt suicide.

Lessons taught now will follow a child throughout their life, impacting their food choices and overall health as an adult

We have sold ourselves on the idea that that teenegers r obviously sick of the families and they r bonded to their peer group . But we have taken it to extreme ...

Its easy to blame the fast food culture and microwave , but parenting rules too seem to be changed over the years .

Parents are allowing kids to be. They let them eat as individuals in rooms or with their frd's.

Now there's no routine , no rule everyone eat what they want . teenagers take plate in their rooms so they can keep SMSing their friends .. As a result eating with our family is dying tradition ..

its time to switch off your TV , go to ur dining table and enjoy a heartly meal with your family

Tips for Great Family Mealtimes
Turn off the TV
Take phone calls later
Plan simple meals to prepare
Schedule mealtime & make it a family routine
Eat a variety of food to keep meal interesting
Involve kids in grocery shopping, meal preparation and clean up when you can
Talk together and laugh together
Make sure everyone has a chance to speak and be heard .

Lets plan 30 min for our family in a 24 hr day schedule
If not possible , Start with once a week on sunday and then moove to one time a day ...........
Its really needed

Guys plz do come up with ur special feeling and moments of ur dinner time in the following link...
or read comments
http://spicyflavours.proboards31.com/index.cgi?board=life&action=display&thread=1162712251
also write abt the difficulties you face while arranging family dinner possible ..and also how it can be sorted out !!!!!!
http://spicyflavours.proboards31.com/index.cgi?board=life&action=display&thread=1162712251
Plz do show this srticle to all your family meembers ....
Parents can ask their kids , and Children's can ask their parents
" We will take our Today's meal together "

With best wishes
Please do forward it to all your dear and near ones


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Re: //Dil Se Desi// hello

Hi Madhu
 
What you are trying to say is not clear from your mail. Are you trying to say that 40% of the group mails are repeats or you are trying to say that some boys in the group forward the group mails to you.?
 
If you mean the first one then you are totally wrong. I would like you to prove your claim. This is a moderated group , that means each and every mail that the group receives from the members, is first opend and scrutinised by the moderator and then only approved/diapproved for releasing to the group. I can agree that may be 1% of the mails could be repeats but not 40%. It is very difficult to define what is a repeat and what is not. A mail may be repeat for you but it can be new for someone else.We as moderators have to take care of all the members' interests. How do you expect us to know that which mail is repeat for which member out of a group strength of 40500+ members.!!!!
Let me assure the group members that during moderation, we take utmost care that mails are not repeated, at least at a short interval. If a mail is appearing after a few months and its really a good one, worth repeating, only then we repeat it. This is done in exceptional cases and not as a routine. This repeating is done for the benefit of new comers and those who may have missed it on the earlier occasion.
 
If you are saying the second one, well then we have no control over this as moderators of the group, since these mails are forwarded in personal capacity. I know that there are many people who forward the group mails to a fellow member. This is really annoying.All the members should realise that the group mails are received by all the members and hence there is no need to forward these mails to others in the group. In such cases just tell the sender this thing and ask him to stop mailing to you.
 
Luv & regards
Rajesh Kainth
Owner Dil Se Desi Group
 
On 11/5/06, madhu_anjan . <madhuanjan2000@yahoo.com> wrote:

dear moderator,
 
hello hope u r doing fine,
 
would u mind scrutinise the mails more than 40% are just forwarded from this group boys only, and it make no sense in reading the same mails in just day or two,
i hope u can chek this and get it done,
tks
very truely urs
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//Dil Se Desi// HAPPY GURPURAB TO ALL FROM GARIMA KHANNA

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Re: //Dil Se Desi// My Mail to the Group is not posted?

Dear Rajesh
Thanks for your instant reply.
I hope in future I can contribute to the group members something concrete stuff by email
Regards
Ashok 

 
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Hi
Can any of you kindly explain why my mail is noted posted in this group?

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//Dil Se Desi// My Dosti SMS Shayari Collection part-4......................................

My Dosti SMS Shayari Collection -part 4......................................
 
 
Kismat par etabar kisko hain
Mil jaye khusi inkar kisko hain
Kuch majbooriya hain mere dost
Warana judai se pyar kisko hain"
 
..................................................
 
Kal na phir ye samaa hoga,
Hum mein se kaun najaane kahaan hoga..?
Murjhaaye phool to mil jaenge kitaabon mein,
Par bicchde Doston ka shayad hi koi pataa hoga....
 
..................................................
 
Kya zamaana tha,hum roz mila karte the;
Raat bhar chaand ke humraaz fira karte the..
Dekh kar jo chupchaap guzar jaate hain,
Kabhi us shakhs ko apna Dost kaha karte the....
 
..................................................
 
Rishton ki kitaab ka cover hai dosti,
Dosti se bani hai hamari hasti,
Khoon ke rishton ki baat aap karte hain,
Hamare liye to zindagi hai aap ki dosti.
 
..................................................
 
Dost dost se khafa nahi hota,
Pyaar pyaar se juda nahi hota.
Bhula dena meri kamiyon ko,
Kyunki insaan kabhi Khuda nahi hota...
 
..................................................
 
Ye safar Dosti ka kabhi khatm na hoga,
Doston se pyaar kabhi kam na hoga.
Door rehkar bhi jab rahegi mehek iski,
Hamein kabhi bicchadne ka gham na hoga...
 
..................................................
 
Hum wo nahi jo tujhe gham mein chhod denge,
Hum wo nahi jo tujhse naata tod denge...
Hum to tere wo Dost hain,
Jo agar teri saasein band ho,
to apni saasein jod denge.....
 
..................................................
 
Karni Khuda se kuch fariyaad baaki hai,
Hamein unse kehni kuch baat baaki hai...
Maut aegi to kehna ruk,abhi apne Dost se
Mulaakaat baaki hai....
 
..................................................
 
Wada to nahi karte dosti nibhaynge,
Koshish yahi rahegi apko nahi satayenge,
Zarurat pade to dilse pukarna,
Marte bhi honge to mohlat lekar aayenge
 
..................................................
 
Har koi pyar k liye tadapta hai....
Har koi pyar k liye rota hai....
Ae dost ye dosti sada kayam rakhna...
Kyunki sabse jyada pyar iss dosti mei he hota hai...
 
..................................................
 
Aye mohabbat tere anjaam pe rona aaya
Jaane kyon aaj tere naam pe rona aaya
Yun to har sham umedon mein guzar jaati hai
Aaj kuch baat hai jo sham pe rona aaya
 
..................................................
 
Tum hanso to khusi mujhe hoti hai,
Tum rodo to aankhein meri roti hain.
Mehsoos kar ke dekh lo.....
Dosti aise hi hoti hai.**
 
..................................................
 
Geet ki zaroorat mehfil mein hoti hai
Pyar ki zaroorat dil mein hoti hai
Bin dosti ke adhuri hai yeh zindagi
Kyunki dost ki zaroorat har pal mehsus hoti hai
 
..................................................
 
Har rishtonke mukaam nahin hote...
Dil ke rishtonke koi naam nahin hote......
Paaya hai Aapko dil ki roshni se..........
Aap jaise dost kisike liye Aam nahin hote.........
 
..................................................
 
Aapki dosti ki ek nazar chahiye;
Dil hai beghar use ek Ghar chahiye
Bas yun hi saath chalte raho ae dost;
Yeh Dosti hume umar bhar chahiye.
 
..................................................
 
Dost hai to Aansuo ki bhi shaan hoti hai,
Dost na ho to Mahfhil bhi Kabristaan hoti hai,
Sara khel to dosti ka hi hai,
Warna mayyat aur barat ek saman hoti hai.
 
..................................................

Zindagi me Jab Maayus hue Hum.....
To Socha k kya paaya kya khoya.......
Khone ka to hisaab na laga paaye...
Yaad raha to bas itna...ke...
Zindagi se bhi pyara..Aap jaisa Ek dost Paaya...
 
..................................................
 
Safar lamba hai dost banate rahiye,
Dil mile na mile haath badate rahiye,
Taj na banaiye costly padega,
Har taraf Mumtaj banate rahiye.
 
..................................................
 
Na khwabon me dekha, na nazaron me dekha,
Hazaron me ek humne tum hi ko dekha,
Gum dene wale to har pal hai yahan,
Har pal khushi dene walon me ek aap hi ko dekha
.
 
..................................................
 
Woh Zindagi hi kya jisme Mohabbat nahi,
Woh Mohabbat hi kya jisme Yaadein nahi,
Woh Yaadein kya jisme Tum nahi,
Aur woh Tum hi kya jiske saath Hum nahi.
 
..................................................
 
Raatein gumnam hoti hai,
Din kisike naam hota hai,
Hum zindagi kuch is tarah jite hai,
Ki har lamha sirf doston ke hi naam hota hai.
 
..................................................
 
Khushiyon par fizaon ka pehra hai,
Na jane kis umeed pe dil thehra hai,
Teri ankhon se jhalakte dard ki kasam,
Yeh dosti ka rishta pyar se gehra hai.
 
..................................................
 
Yun to kisika peecha nahin karte,
Dard-e-dil diya aur liya nahin karte,
Ittefaq ki baat hai ye hamari dosti varna,
Itna kimti SMS kisi ko kiya nahin karte
 
..................................................
 
Har karz dosti ka ada kaun karega,
jab hum hi na rahenge to dosti kaun karega,
Aey khuda mere doston ko salamat rakhna,
varna mere jeene ki dua kaun karega.
 
..................................................
 
 
Some of the Inspiring Quotes which tell not to give up in life so you can learn something from these Quotes
 
1) Never expext things to happen..struggle and make them happen. never expect yourself to be given a good value..creat a value of ur own
 
2) If a drop of water falls in lake there is no identity.But if it falls on a leaf of lotus it shine like a pearl.so choose the best place where you would shine..
 
3) Falling down is not defeat...defeat is when ur refuse to get up...
 
4) Ship is always safe at shore... but is is not built for it
 
5) When ur successful your wellwishers know who  you are when you are unsuccessful you know who ur welwishers are
 
6) It is great confidence in a friend to tell him your faults; greater to tell  him/her
 
Never take some one for granted,Hold every person Close to your Heart because you might wake up one day and realise that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones." Remember this always in life.


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Re: //Dil Se Desi// My Mail to the Group is not posted?

Hi Ashok
 
See below the history of the messages you have so far sent to the group. This report is taken from the Yahoo Groups server. Excluding your present mail, you have totally sent 4 mails to the group and out of that 3 have been approved and 1 rejected by the moderator. Your mail "Modern Wonders of India" was rejected on the grounds that it has already been sent to the group on earlier occasion by someone else. Kindly don't be under the impression that all the mails that you send to the group will be posted. This is a moderated group and the moderators of the group approve/disapprove the mails before releasing them to the group.
 
Luv & Regards
Rajesh Kainth
 
Owner Dil Se Desi group
 
Date Member Activity
Nov 5, 2006 11:12 am bolanashokkumar <ashokkumarbolan@gmail.com> Moderated message: "My Mail to the Group..."
Nov 1, 2006 6:56 pm bolanashokkumar <ashokkumarbolan@gmail.com> Moderated message: "Do You Know?"
Oct 30, 2006 4:44 pm bolanashokkumar <ashokkumarbolan@gmail.com> Approved message: "hope you like it"
Oct 30, 2006 4:42 pm bolanashokkumar <ashokkumarbolan@gmail.com> Approved message: "Hello"
Oct 30, 2006 11:20 am bolanashokkumar <ashokkumarbolan@gmail.com> Moderated message: "Hello"
Oct 30, 2006 11:01 am bolanashokkumar <ashokkumarbolan@gmail.com> Moderated message: "hope you like it"
Oct 24, 2006 9:38 pm bolanashokkumar <ashokkumarbolan@gmail.com> Approved message: "Re: //Dil Se Desi// ..."
Oct 24, 2006 11:27 am bolanashokkumar <ashokkumarbolan@gmail.com> Moderated message: "Re: //Dil Se Desi// ..."
Oct 9, 2006 1:01 pm bolanashokkumar <ashokkumarbolan@gmail.com> Moderated message: "Modern Wonders of India"

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On 11/5/06, AshokKumar Bolan <ashokkumarbolan@gmail.com> wrote:


Hi
Can any of you kindly explain why my mail is noted posted in this group?

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//Dil Se Desi// Gurpurab Di Lukh Lukh Vadhaiyan....Gurudwara Nankana Sahib

Fast Facts about Guru Nanak ji

FATHER

Kalayan Das Ji

MOTHER

Tripta ji

DATE OF BIRTH

10/20/1469

PLACE OF BIRTH

Talwandi (Pak) Nankana Sahib

WIFE

Sulakhni ji

CHILDREN

Sri Chand ji & Lakhmi das ji

AGE, YEAR & TIME AT GUR GADHI

Parkash, 70 years

REGIMES

Behal, Sakander, Babar, Hamanyu & Ibrahim Lodhi

CONTRIBUTION OF BANIES

Jap Ji, Sidh Goshat, Sodar, Sohala, Arti Onkar, Asa Di Var, Malar & Madge Di Var, Patti Baramaha. Total 947 Shabads in 19 Rags

AGE

70

JYOTI-JOT DAY

05/07/1539

JYOTI JOT PLACE

Kartar pur

Guru Nanak was born in 1469 at Rai Bhoeki Talwandi now nown as Nankana Sahib situated in Punjab province of West Pakistan. This place is about 55 miles north-west of Lahore. His father, Mehta Kalu was a Patwari- an accountant of land revenue in the government. Guru's mother was Mata Tripta and he had one older sister, Bibi Nanki. From the very childhood, Bibi Nanki saw in him the Light of God but she did not reveal this secret to anyone. She is known as the first disciple of Guru Nanak.

 

 

NANKANA SAHIB
(Gurdwara Birth Place of Guru Nanak Dev ji)

Sikh history originates from Nankana Sahib. Guru Nanak Dev, the founder of Sikh faith, was born here in 1469. The name of the place at that time was Rai Bhoi di Talwandi. The landlord contemporary of Guru Nanak Dev was Rai Bular, who himself became a devotee of the Guru. It was renamed Nankana after the Guru. It is located in what is called Nilianwali Bar (forest where nilgais abound), and is about 75 kilometers west-southwest of Lahore. Nankana Sahib is in Sheikhupura district and is connected to the district town by rail and road. There are several shrines connected with the memory of Guru Nanak Dee's childhood and early youth here. Later Guru Arjan dev and Guru Hargobirid also visited Nankana Sahib and a Gurdwara was also raised subsequently in their honor. During the Sikh rule, these gurdwaras were richly endowed with liberal land grants (over 7,000 hectares). The management was in the hands of Udasi and Nirmala priests until the Shiromani Gurdwara Parbandhak Committee took over during the Gurdwara Reform Movement of 1920-25. The Gurdwaras had to be abandoned in the aftermath of the Partition in 1947. They are now looked after by the Government of Pakistan. Nankana Sahib is one of the three places which can be visited periodically by bands of Sikh pilgrims with the approval of the Government of Pakistan, the other two being Panja Sahib near Hasan Abdal and Lahore. Since 1947 the traditional Sikh ardaas (supplicatory prayer) has been supplemented by a single sentence:
"O Merciful and Bounteous God, ever helpful to your Panth, do grant to your Khalsa Ji the boon of seeing, serving and protecting Gurdwaras at Nankana Sahib and other places from which the Panth has been separated."
In these simple words the community, a minute minority in the populous Indian sub-continent, expresses its loss, its grief, its pangs of separation from its venerable, sacred, historical shrines left behind when they left their homes and hearths in circumstances beyond their control. Also, at the same time, by these words the Sikhs reaffirm their faith in other tenets of their faith expressed in Guru Nanak Dev's words:
"Union and separation have been created by my Lord, who having created Universe gave it pain and pleasure; but the Guru-oriented ones wearing the armour of faith are indifferent to pleasure and pain." (A.G. 1032)
Following are the historical Gurudwaras at Nankana Sahib
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Gurudwara Janam Asthan:

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Gurudwara Bal Lila

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Gurdwara Patti Sahib

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Gurudwar Kiara sahib

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Gurudwara Mal ji Sahib

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Gurudwara Tambu Sahib:

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Gurudwara Chhevin Patshahi

Gurudwara Janam Asthan:
  This shrine representing the home of Baba Kalo and Mata Tripta, father and mother respectively of Guru Nanak Dev, where the Guru was born, was established by Baba Dharam Chand (1523-1618) son of Baba Lakhmi Das and grandson of Guru Nanak Dev. The shrine must have been established before the end of the sixteenth century because Guru Arjan Dev (1563-1606) is believed to have visited it. Its present building comprising a square, domed sanctum with a rectangular pavilion attached to it within a vast walled compound was built by Maharaja Ranjit Singh (1780-1839).

Several other buildings were added after the S.G.P.C. took over control on 21st February 1921, the day following the massacre of 150 to 200 Sikh pilgrims by assassins hired by Maharit Narain Das abetted by the British Commissioner of Lahore Division. The traditional fair to celebrate birth anniversary of Guru Nanak Dev continued with great eclat upto 1946, but since 1947 it has been a tame affair. In the beginning, the Pakistan government had permitted 15 Sikhs to stay at Nankana Sahib to carry out routine services at the shrine, but their number was reduced to a bare five in 1968 and still later to a solitary Granthi who maintains a token attendance with the help of some sahajdhari (unbaptised) Siridhi Sikhs. Thrice a year, on Baisakhi (April), death anniversary of Maharaja Ranjit Singh (June) and birth anniversary of Guru Nanak Dev (November), Pakistan government allows Sikh jathas, a few hundred str ong each, to visit this and other shrines at Nankana Sahib, Panja Sahib and Lahore.
According to Waliullah Khan, Sikh Shrines in West Pakistan, there is a sacred relic, Chola Sahib, preserved here. It is a cloak with Quranic verses embroidered on it supposed to have been presented to Guru Nanak Dev by the ruler of Baghdad during the Guru's visit to that city. If this is true (because our older sources do not make any mention of it), it is a fake relic, because Chola Sahib believed to be the real one is preserved at Dera Baba Nanak in Gurdaspur district of the Indian Punjab.

Nankana Sahib is a holy place where the founder of Sikh religion, the dispeller of darkness, the most enlightened global Guru, Guru Nanak Dev ji was born early in the morning to Mata Tripta Ji and Mehta Kalu Ji on 15th April, 1469 (Baisakh sudi 3, Samwat 1526).
Bhai Gurdas in his Var (Var 1/27) has equated this event with the sun that lights up the earth after a dark night :

    Jeeu Kar suraj nikaleya, taare chhipe andher paloa. (Var 1/27)

According to Puratan Janam Sakhi, the trees starting dripping juice, many a pauper became rich, the diseased were blessed with health. The earth heaved a sigh of relief.
       According to Janam Sakhis, when Daulta Dai, the maid nurse was offered money, she refused it on the plea that she had already been rewarded by the very glimpse of the holy baby. Guru Nanak gave his first message that he belong to God and would exert the people to worship His Name. Bhai Nand lal ji has well said that Guru Nanak was asked by the Almighty to turn the face of humanity towards Him.
       The township of Nankana Sahib was earlier known as Raipur and later on as Rai-Bhoi-di-Talwandi but after the birth of Guru Nanak, it began to be known as Nankian Sahib/Nankana Sahib. It is situated at a distance 48 miles on the west from Lahore.
         Guru Nanak dev ji passed his whole childhood and young age in Nankana Sahib. At the age of nine, when Pandit Hardyal asked the boy Nanak to put on Janeo, he refused to have the thread that discriminated amongst mankind. The Janeo which was made of the silk for a brahmin, of cotton for a khatri, of wool for a Vaish and which was strictly abondoned for Shudara. And again which is three folds for brahmin, two folds for Khatri and only one fold for Vaish. He asked the Pandit if he had the thread made of compassion the cotton, contentment the yarn, continence the knot and purity the twist, he was ready to wear it. The Pandit was dumb-founded :

                          
  Daeya kapah santokh soot jatu gandhi sat watt.
                            Eihu janeo jeea ka hai ta pande ghatt. (p. 471)

                                                                                 When he joined a school at Nankana Sahib, the Guru is said to have written fundamentals of education on the wooden takhti provided to him. He enlightened the people when he wrote simply the first alphabet of Persian script 'alaf' and conveyed the message of unity of Godhood.
      Guru Nanak Dev got married on 21st , may 1487 to Bibi Sulakhani, Daghter of Mulchand Khatri of Batala. It was at Nankana Sahib that he met Bhai Mardana, who was his life long companion for 47 years, listening and singing Guru's gospel. According to the Sikh history, Guru Nanak at the age of 22 years, in 1491 A.D. went into silence for days together. He did not eat a single morsel and utter a single word.
      His father Kalu ji sent for a local physician / Vaid. The vaid found nothing wrong with the young Nanak and found himself in a quandary as to what to tell his father because Nanak was absolutely healthy. Guru Nanak said ," I have no physical ailment. Thou, the simple physician, knows not the pangs arising from the heart"


      Bhola vaid na jaaneie karak Kaleje maah. (P. 1279)
Guru Nanak Dev Ji stayed at his birthplace uptil 35 years of age and hereafter went to Sultanpur.
For a long time, this place remained in normal form. In A.D. 1613 (Samwat 1670), Guru Hargobind visited the birth place of Guru Nanak and entrusted the responsibility of looking after this place to Alamst, an ardent disciple of Baba Sri Chand. Since then Udasis, (the followers of Guru Nanak's Son) looked after this place for a long time.

  Maharaja Ranjit Singh got a magnificent building built there and at the behest of Baba Sahib Singh, the Maharaja gave 700 acres land as religious endowment to his holy shrine but the Udasis continued to maintain the place. They had the charge of this place during the times full of stress and strife for the Sikhs But with the passage of time, in early 20th century, these Udasis Mahants began to treat this revenue free jagir as their personal property and indulged in erotic and luxorious life. To get these historical Gurdwaras from the hands of these apostates the Gurdwara Prabandh Sudhar Movement was started. One peaceful Jatha that entered Gurdwara Janam Asthan was mercilessly hacked by the mercenaries of Mahant Narain Dass. Even the holy Sri Guru Granth Sahib was made target of thier bullets. Many a people belonging to this jatha were tied to a Jand and burnt alive. The Martyred half-burnt bodies were thrown into the well.

        This incident gave such an impetus to the Gurdwara Reform Movement that the Mahants had to handover the shrines to the Sikh Sangats. The magnificent building of this gurdwara alongwith the beautiful gardens, enthrals the onlookers and devotees. There is a big sarovar and a spacious inn which provides accomodation to the pilgrims. The historical Jand and the well are still existing, telling the tale of atrocities perpetuated by Mahant Narain Dass on simple-hearted and peace-loving Sikhs. According to Bhai Kahn Singh Nabha, the auther of Gurshabd Ratnakar Mahan Kosh, this shrine had 18 thousand acres of land attached to it and a cash endowment of Rs. nine thousand eight hundred and ninety two also.

      By the partition of the Indian sub-continent, the Sikhs not only lost many lives, wealth etc. but also thier most loved and revered shrines which went to the other side of the border. After this partition, a mention of Nankana Sahib Gurdwara in the daily ardasa or prayer has become a reguler feature. These Sikh shrines in Pakistan are managed by a Waqf Board and every year, Sikh Jathas visit these shrines on four different occasions.

        At present there are 25-30 Sikh families residing in Nankana Sahib and as a result of this, daily service is performed and bani is recited. Bhai Partap Singh is functioning as the Granthi. At the occassion of Guru Nanak's anniversary, about three thousand Sikh devotees from India visit Nankana Sahib. Sikhs from all over the world come there too.

 

Acknowledgements:

bullet Text and photographs: Gurdwara Gurdham at Pakistan, written by Roop Singh and Published by SGPC
bullet Photographs : Kanwer Sosheel Singh  from Pakistan
bullet Photographs: S. Rajinder Singh Narang

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